One of my friends thought she had to be a femme when she first came out the closet, only to discover that even though she was in a lesbian relationship she still did not feel comfortable. Yup, I made that one up and I am going to wear it out…lol Another friend recently came out after a 20 plus years married to a man. They have been around for a long time. I gathered as many labels as I could and put them together here in hopes that it can help. I skipped a lot of them I thought would only confuse people. Words in parenthesis are just the categories the words apply to.
This catalog is going to tell you the different kinds of lesbians and i really hope you enjoy it.. She usually dresses quite casually and does not wear make-up. A chapstick lesbian is a female homosexual whose gender identity is slightly to the femme side of neutral on the femme-butch continuum of gender presentation but whose appearance and preferences stop short of those of a "lipstick lesbian. In the lesbian community the boi lesbian is biologically female but presents as looking boyish. Bois tend to date older partners. Butch, femme, young, and old, the activist lesbian can look like any other type of lesbian you might meet. She's inspirational, passionate, and a lover of justice.