But I just realized that this is a myth. Someone made a big promise that seemed like bullshit to get something out of me. But I gave him the benefit of the doubt. I observed his behavior for two weeks to see if his actions matched his words.
INFJs aren't doormats unable to be assertive. We are silent judges, jury and executioners. : infj
Quiet, empathetic dreamers with huge hearts, INFJs are one of the rarest personality types, which naturally, makes them quite odd. Here are 14 common romantic problems INFJs deal with in their lives. INFJs get frustrated when they make an attempt to connect with someone and the person fails to share their enthusiasm. This leads them to wonder why they even bothered at all and makes them more hesitant to reveal other things about themselves in the future. They want to believe in the best in their partner even if it comes at a cost to their well being. They obviously have their share of faults too, but INFJs are one of the least likely personality types to give up on their partner. They can falter to their weaknesses if they get into a relationship with the wrong person.
Cancel 0 INFJs are gentle, caring and complex souls who naturally place a lot of value and meaning in their relationships. Few things devastate an INFJ like heartbreak or having lost someone they love. INFJs prioritize order and harmony over most everything.
What's your standard of perfection? Mine is ridiculously, suffocatingly, constipatingly high. At school, I was that kid. The one who agonizingly wrote and rewrote her stories until they were perfect. The one who mentally beat herself up for getting only 98 percent — 98 percent!